Turning friendship into romance after 50

Turning friendship into romance after 50
Jason Rase
LetLifeIn.com


It's important to be really systematic in turning friendship into romance. Friendship and romance are inseparable in many cases, but it is not for everyone.

Many seniors are enjoying romance that started with friendship long ago.

On the other hand, the diametrically opposite situation might happen - you might lose your intimate friend in the mire of romance. But, within reason, we should follow what our mind directs us to do. If you feel you would like to make a romantic relationship with your longtime friend, do not hesitate to move forward.

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• Start with a friend who understands you: Think of this situation you have a friend, who understands you well, who knows you and would stand beside you in all situations; he/she could be the perfect match for your romantic life.

• Romancing close friends can be risky: He/she might take the relationship for granted at the beginning. If you are honest about your aims and objectives, do not hesitate. If you know each other well from earlier days and it is assumed that the relationship that exists between you can never be altered, proceed. A true friend can bring success, happiness and all the treasures in life. If you are sincere about moving your relationship to romance, nothing can stop that.

• Assume nothing: Most people assume many things at the beginning of any friendship. If you think you might not be ready to start a romantic relationship with your close friend, don't rush it and wait for the right time. If he/she does not want to change the equation of the relationship immediately, don't worry. Keep trying and you might get the result you are after.

• Making changes: It might be necessary to make some changes in yourself to transfer your relationship from friendship to romance. Nothing drastic. You might dress a little snazzier and try a new perfume or cologne. Be realistic and create an opportunity for him/her to come closer to you.

• Making your move: Wait for the perfect time - hold his/her hand and kiss. If he/she responds to your gesture, carry on. Be direct and make no hesitation in asking for a date. Be true to your heart and do not fear rejection.

• Keep a positive outlook: If he/she shows positive signs of wanting a romance, move to the next step: Give him/her little romantic gifts and suggest eating at favorite restaurants. When you have the time, take walks in a nearby park or at the riverside. Speak in romantic tones and bring up fun memories.

• You might just create magic: Be open to listening to the emotional stories of his/her life. Sit close so your bodies touch. Look for small opportunities to stimulate physically as well as emotionally -- if you can do this, you are practically there.